Comments on: Please Don’t Judge http://www.gringuitica.com/2006/07/171/ Mon, 06 Sep 2010 19:11:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Jesse http://www.gringuitica.com/2006/07/171/comment-page-1/#comment-587 Jesse Sat, 05 Aug 2006 19:38:10 +0000 http://www.gringuitica.com/2006/07/171/#comment-587 Hm. Interestingly enough, two days prior to this posting was supposed to be my 2nd wedding anniversary. She left me before we even got hitched. Still kinda sucks, but I'm doing pretty good for myself. It's totaly true though, I wouldn't change a thing(er, except I probably wouldn't have gotten her as much jewelry because DAMN could I go for an extra thousand bucks every now and again(even though I know I would have blown it by now on something silly) We actually parted on so so terms, started rebuilding a friendship that ultimately fell apart because it hurt me tremendously to have her talk about guys and she spent a LOT of time talking about guys at that point. -J P.S. You made a post on my live journal(wilbean) a bit back and I scanned through to try to find something to relate to. A bit out of date, but I was scanning quickly, and I hadn't even thought about our theoretical wedding in a while. I guess it's easier to forget the dates when there was never an actual event that transpired. Hm. Interestingly enough, two days prior to this posting was supposed to be my 2nd wedding anniversary. She left me before we even got hitched. Still kinda sucks, but I’m doing pretty good for myself. It’s totaly true though, I wouldn’t change a thing(er, except I probably wouldn’t have gotten her as much jewelry because DAMN could I go for an extra thousand bucks every now and again(even though I know I would have blown it by now on something silly)

We actually parted on so so terms, started rebuilding a friendship that ultimately fell apart because it hurt me tremendously to have her talk about guys and she spent a LOT of time talking about guys at that point.

-J

P.S. You made a post on my live journal(wilbean) a bit back and I scanned through to try to find something to relate to. A bit out of date, but I was scanning quickly, and I hadn’t even thought about our theoretical wedding in a while. I guess it’s easier to forget the dates when there was never an actual event that transpired.

]]> By: Troy Spier http://www.gringuitica.com/2006/07/171/comment-page-1/#comment-557 Troy Spier Fri, 28 Jul 2006 19:44:08 +0000 http://www.gringuitica.com/2006/07/171/#comment-557 We learn from everything good that happens and from everything bad; and hopefully we all improve our lives, based on what we learned. It appears you've learned more about yourself during that marriage and the time you have spent being divorced than the person questioning you about the marriage/divorce, etc. So regardless of whatever people ask you about it, just remember that you've improved your life from everything bad and good that has happened, and maybe they should as well, instead of interrogating you. :) We learn from everything good that happens and from everything bad; and hopefully we all improve our lives, based on what we learned. It appears you’ve learned more about yourself during that marriage and the time you have spent being divorced than the person questioning you about the marriage/divorce, etc. So regardless of whatever people ask you about it, just remember that you’ve improved your life from everything bad and good that has happened, and maybe they should as well, instead of interrogating you. :)

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